Here at CAREER LIONS HQ, we promote a lifestyle that you are in charge of. You are responsible for engineering your life. As I have been reading The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown, I have come to such a realization (at least for me) and feel that I need to share this with you. Whenever I feel I am holding back on something or feeling any resistance towards taking action in realizing a goal it’s always because of the same thing. The thing that holds me back is SHAME! Shame towards thinking big (and coming across as arrogant or delusional), shame towards taking credit for achievements (thinking I need to be humble), and shame towards opening up about feelings (no need to look vulnerable, I rather am an ice queen). o be honest, I am tired of feeling like this. Also, think it’s such a shame to be ashamed? Read on as I’ll dig into getting more the shame resilience theory.